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Oh my lawd…. U guys are hilarious…. That you for the fun humour.👍

I experienced unconditional love unconditional means unconditional no strings attached, the rules to obey. No expectations. Love it's giving.

Thank you. Very helpful! 🤗

So hard to process when you sacrifice so much and for years you've been there for them and they leave the moment another guy comes.

That was awesome and very funny..

I hope some can see this a year later. But i can thirty days yet cause she still lives here? Helppp!!

Both of you are inconsiderate bastards

It is not wrong to say I am sorry before the problem is resolved the intention of resolving can be very significant. The intention to not repeat the mistake should be in place.

Thanks guys; appreciating the life education classes with increased proactive positive input from a man's perspective ❤

The fact that I'm here tuning in to this podcast, which is very informative and helpful, is a step forward. Be strong for anyone who is hurting, love yourself, and stay positive through it all. There's a reason why we ended up where we are, and usually there's something better waiting at the end. 🙏🏽❤️

This is SO TRUE’! Before I left my marriage, I did cognitive behavioral therapy when I learned about core values and behaviors. I worked for a year and it was the best thing I’ve done bc it helped me see my value as a secure functioning individual. It is very obvious why we needed to follow through with divorce. He didn’t want to have any accountability for his lack of communication, lack of self awareness and no understanding of his values and being committed to that.i also practiced mindfulness therapy which was the key to my happiness and wellbeing.

Why are you making light of people's pain? It's not funny. Nobody with a broken heart wants to listen to the two of you laughing about losing someone they love. Show some empathy and compassion.

omg i realy loved this podcast ! very nice ! I feel much better now . ❤

What if you have a business with your ex-husband and 8 years after divorce, it occurs to you that without physical detachment, it seems not possible to completely heal. There is residual pain. That hit me hard. What would you guys do? Let go of the business and start over? Deal with it, bc it’s the smart thing to do?

I am 70 and after 25 years of selfish bad behaviors, no intimacy, no respect I said enough. It’s been difficult because it’s years of loss of identity and being part of a two. I was elated at the freedom and I still will never go back to that, I don’t want to be a slave to any man again. The loneliness though can get to me, it’s difficult to go to places alone and not that safe at night or long trips. I made my choice though so I went back to working with young reps and I am determined to live on and move forward

Mental illness... doesn't seem like a great benefactor to pass on to your offspring

Its been a month, its tough dependent on how much energy you invested

What if it ended because of circumstances on both sides that made it challenging and both parties still love eachother? I’ve detoxed for a little while now and nowhere near better. A bit of backstory: my ex partner had some traumatic stuff happen to her so she returned to her family in her home country for a while. I was super supportive but after a few weeks/month I got pretty full on with wanting her to tell me when she was going to be back (honestly I just wanted her to come back). She had told me the end of June but after the she didn’t feel she had processed what she needed to enough yet. I told her it was hurting me being long distance and not knowing when she was coming back and made a bit of a deal about it and she chose to break it off but told me she loved me still and that she could see that still being together considering the situation was hurting me. She still talks to my mum and family quite regularly (texts every day or so and sometimes calls) and I still love her - it was a very serious relationship (her parents had already got us wedding rings, although I fked up not proposing because I wanted the right “moment”). I’m not sure how to fix this - I’ve messaged her to check in a few times and she’ll reply but does so in a way that I know she doesn’t want to keep talking. Should I just move on? I want to marry this girl and will fight for her back, but don’t want to push her away in the process. Wisdom appreciated.

30 days???? That didnt even help one little bit!!! Its been 90 days now and its not any better! Now I'm hearing it could take years! I can't handle that crap. This is brutal. This guy wants to be in contact with me as a friend which we were for 4 years. Then I fell for him and told him and he still only wanted to be friends and keep calling me and I told him it was too painful and he said it's ok to suffer and carry our crosses so I did and got suicidal. Then he went to the Philippines and got some older Filipino to get engaged to him. Ge comes back and said he can't drive me to Church anymore so thats when I wouldn't take his calls anymore but I still love him. And he said we can still talk after he's married. Sgould I call him? Im too scared to do that. He might go live in the Philippines if she can't get a Visa to come here. I almost emailed him the other day after crying over but thank God I didn't. Anybody see the movie The Notebook? That reminds me of the hell Im going through. Its agonizing and like veing sent to hell. But this ain't going to beat me. No way.

It's a good talk 🥰

You can’t just cut it off so easily when you have kids.

I want to scream! I can’t believe it’s over. I don’t even know who I am without her

Breakup day 6. 😓 hurts! Gotta give up hope. You described my discard to a tee!

I need to get my own place. It's hard being around her

Amazing 👏 ❤

I didn't know it but what I thought were boundaries are walls. I have a very sweet husband. Five years. Great guy. However, hearing the same words again, why is this making you angry? Why are u snapping at me? You're being defensive, you're not listening, you're making associations to your past, etc. it is beginning to ruin this relationship. I've had too many. I decided to figure out how to not be defensive and found your video. It's made me realize that I am detaching emotionally and building walls and I am going to try to put this into practice. Thanks.

Perfect timing mahalo for the different perspectives realistic and simple to comprehend

Day #1 for me and am mot even bothered ,am not losing any sleep over him

#2 lol - i recently got that and it took me a few days to process and react emotionally. It hurt.

Im so hurt my hubby left me with 5 kids😢😢 nd this is just my first week

I just yesterday faced the beginning of the end of 7 year relationship . The conversation was calm With her but I get the message that she believes it’s the end . I am calm but boy I am hurting . I suggested a joint counselling as an option as we both said we both have things to out right . Whether this happens I do not know . I could do with talking to you but I see this presentation is year old so whether you are still around i do not know . Can you help me ? I am in uk . I am 65 .

4years down the drain 2 kids later & fresh after having to have a forced abortion & I need to get over him asap.

Thank you I heal instantly after years and years of chasing my ex, yesterday she came along with her boyfriend to see our son I got hurt so bad, but after watching this podcast I feel healed.

Amazing stuff.

I would like to get a video from you guys on Narcissistic Abuse breakup where the victim is so confused with cognitive dissonance and the discard.

How can someone become a complete stranger after being so close for 5 years.. it hurts so much

what can you do ? if you have two kids ???

Its my 3rd day and its hurting and breaking me but im trying to be positive and praying most of the time ....

How to get over a breakup where you have zero closure and she changed in literally 2 days?

You both are awesome ❤ looking forward to hear from you guys talking about romantic relationship with mental illness people.

This is a very good one. You both nailed it. Keep up the good works. Love and light 🙏✨❤️🇵🇭 please tell us about how to handle people with mental illness in a love relationship? looking forward to it. God bless you ❤️🙏

It's a different case in my part. The one that I love for almost 6 years of dating with someone who is suffering from mental illness 😢 and all i do is to understand and patience and love. Tough, right?

Love the three versions😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂soooofunny

Love dispensary😂

I love the humour 😅you guys just cheered me up... going through a breakup im looking to move out but its difficult

Thank you for this, there where so many memories and so many good times that I’ll never forget. It hurts so much and I feel so defeated and empty.

I guess we’re all on day 2 of the breakup… I think mine hurts the most because he was a walking green flag and I was healing & kind of broken so I think he eventually started to feel that. He went from wanting to marry me to feeling unsure & the rejection I think hurts the most. Replaying all of the perfect memories and sweetness from him just breaks my heart to pieces… I decided to break my rule & move in with him even though I wanted to wait until marriage- so moving out was a tear fest once we merged. Never again will I do that.

Its been a week since everything came to an end, the anxiety, depression, anger, and suicide thoughts have been a roller coaster, what made it more difficult is having bipolar 1 disorder. I thought I had deleted all my social media accounts, pictures, phone numbers, and emails and ran into a photo of her in my gallery it feels like I relapsed but im pushing foward, determined to make the changes and learn everything that i need to change to become a better person for myself first and my future partner.

8plus years. He never wanted to talk. It was just arguing. He could never see his flaws. He would just start yelling. Very controlling and has massive anger issues. But I still loved him. I was addicted to him. I can’t even see myself with him long term. But yet I can’t move on. I don’t get it. But is time to move on.

Break your thinking n triggers.. move away..delete..block